Mum's Birthday

My mum's birthday is on 11th April, 1st March on lunar calendar (14th April). My uncle said he want to spend a dinner to his sister (my mummy).

I suggested go to GU YUE TIAN at Chulan Square to have the birthday dinner, but my uncle said he wanted to try a restaurant called Janbo and he said is quite famous. After few discussion we finally choose Janbo at Puchong.

After having not really delicious dinner, then we went to Neway KTV to sing all night long~

my uncle and aunt

my mummy and 2 nieces

family


Neway KTV


My nieces

At here I got some KTV manner to share out:

1) Don't hold the remote control at all the time b'coz you are not a controller.
2) Must learn to share the mic b'coz the mic doesn't belongs to you.
3) Don't choose many songs at the same time b'coz people will get pissed off while waiting.
4) While people singing, please do not sing with them unless you be asked to join b'coz this is not your personal show.
5) Don't laugh at people while the missed the key or sing with the wrong key b'coz you ain't the judge.

Please learn to share, to respect and don't show off with your voice

Remember : KTV is a stage for everyone, not a stage for your personal show~!

Ching Ming

Last week was "Ching Ming", I went to my daddy grave yard to pray him...

My daddy already passed away about 3 years and this year my mum just finish his new home (grave stone) so... we invite lots of people...some people suggested that want to put some fire works... ( mostly "Ching Ming" will pray on morning or afternoon) Our "Ching Ming" is different ... We pray at midnight!

Daddy's Grave Stone


Foods For Daddy(some already gone into our stomach)


Burning Flame



He is selling roasted pork at grave yard o.0"


Fireworks

On that day, my family said something really made me pissed off~
I woke up early in the morning on that day to make some "bao & kuih". When afternoon tea time we chit-chat and I was asking why some people never let their daughter ( all the girls) to pray at grave yard~
Some people "pantang" about this. They answered me... and mum said she very fair coz she never do this to us(daughter).
Then, this f*** off conversation started...

My aunt : actually this is the law~ the 1st incense stick (xiang) is for the son... daughter must
understand this law~
Me : ......(o...ok)
Mummy : ya~ actually daughter shouldn't bring anything to go (mean the houses, cars....).
Me : ..........
My aunt : ya~if we girls (her sisters) go pray our parent, we never bring anything and the 1st
incense stick is sure for my brother...
Me : .........

The whole conversation I just keep silent~ I woke up early in the morning and made all things by myself till night time~ from planning, packing, making etc... all I do it alone and nobody help me~ all my pay back is this? daughter shouldn't do this and that? How hurt is that....

The most unfair things is my bro and his wife do just a little bit coz everything my mum ask me to do... This really make me pissed off~ If daughter can't pray or shouldn't bring things to pray my dad then don't ask me to do everything for the son~!

but... on that night something happened and make me get back my mood...
My bro put on the 9'feets incense stick (actually 9'feets can burn for so many hours).
The incense stick fell down when we burn "money" that time and burst.
Few second, 3 sticks of 9'feets incense stick left just ashes.... my bad mood? just like the ashes~ Fly Away~!