As an international student, our family, life, best friend all in far far away, sometimes really lonely and really hope someone be with you, supporting you or sharing happiness and sadness with you. So we easy to fall for any guy or girl that we always along with. Many people told me they don't want to get into a relationship because they feel lonely.
But.....
Why you get into a relationship when you are not lonely?
Just imagine, if you always surrounded by friends and family, your daily schedule always full of fun and excitement and busy. You are rich enough to have the life that you want and you are good looking enough to have many admirers and can get 1 night stand easily. Would you still thinking you want to be in relationship?
For some people maybe "yes", because they can't live without love; but some people will say "no", or "no unless...... bla...bla..."
Human easy to get lonely, maybe you have wonderful life but every night you back to your house and your room is empty you sure will think "how nice if someone wait for me and warm my bed for me", when you see all your friends have partner you will think "how nice if I have a partner as well..."
So....
It is fine to admit that you want to get into a relationship because you are lonely, because we are lonely then we start to search for love, start with favorable impression to a guy/girl, then slowly discover his or her merit and shortcoming, fall in love, be in relationship, after that need time, responsible, and how to accommodate with each other to result a good or bad relationship.
Sometimes you pay out hard but the result is not what you expected, but if you never pay out anything then you will never get what you want.
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